HOW TO RECOGNIZE IT IN YOURSELF — AND OTHERS

Nor does every man feel compelled to take a mistress, wear young clothes and take to drug culture, smoking pot and clamouring for coke.

If there is a common denominator in this search for change it is a need for fulfilment in a strictly personal way. It is aspiration to a change that will provide a degree of personal success through personal creativity. Being admired for individual ability. Only creative ability can supply satisfaction and answer the consuming need for mental stimulus and prevent the encroaching fear of being permanently bored. The urge is to be recognized for oneself rather than for being adept with things like figures, forward planning, administration, sales techniques or machinery.

For many men the solution may only require short term change but it is sufficient. Being able to handle a secret affair, for example, can for some answer their creative urge as well as sexual one. They see organizing and maintaining the affair in secret as creative ability and the affair itself a bonus proving their continuing sexual prowess. For an equal number taking a prolonged holiday helps, maybe with wide travel. In both cases although the change is not permanent it is stimulating enough to get them out of their rut so they can look on life refreshed. Many large companies today allow their executives to take a sabbatical for extensive travel, to write a book etc. This change recharges a valuable man’s batteries.

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